"A Farewell to Arms" reflects reality in its depiction of a male and female relationship, where, though Henry is stronger physically, Catharine compensates with her clever, capable womanly wiles and female seductive qualities. The male/female dynamic in "A Farewell to Arms" offers a welcome dose of verisimilitude in contrast to modern male/female narratives where culture seems to force women to adopt male traits at the expense of women optimizing their feminine differences.